It’s a new year, and time for things to get in more order. If you have read this blog before it’s been a while since I have posted anything, but with the new year starting I have decided that there will be a post every week. This week I will touch a little bit on why I have been gone so long and update you on changes our kinky relationship.
Things in the kinky relationship Lindsey and I share was very hot and very active . This past August we had a sexy trip to Nevada where she wore this very sexy bra that barely covered her nipples and people driving by our car could look in and see her it was fun and very playful. We went gambling and ate dinner at a great steakhouse and on the way home I spent the trip playing with her by twisting her nipples and rubbing her clit. When we got home it we couldn’t wait to rip off our clothes and fuck. This was a great trip, but after her sex drive seemed to drop off little by little. I also noticed that the kinky part of our life started to slowly fade away. Then I started to notice a lot of the other things she used to enjoy doing seemed to be pushed aside and she seemed to be more tired then not. I will be honest all these changes really started to worry me, and I felt we should figure it out.
Lindsey in this time was just getting more submersed in the new job she got back in April. This job is very stressful and it turns out all that stress turned into depression. It wasn’t an instant discovery it took some time to figure out what was going on. Lindsey went to the doctor and got a prescription to help her get her out of her depression.
In a DD/lg relationship as a DD your just not a dominant but you are also a caregiver. Up to this point there hadn’t been a need for me to be a full caregiver. This was new territory, but being a Daddy I did whatever I could to help her through this tough time. Such as taking on more of the everyday chores, pushing her to make time to do things that she enjoys, and just really being there as much as possible to support her and take some of the stress away. Slowly over the span of months she started getting bursts of her old self back until the depression was less of an everyday concern. The past few months have been fairly rough, but I feel like it helped us grow as a couple. We were also reminded that we can get through anything as long as we have each other.
The hard part is mostly over and we have started getting things more on track with our kinky lifestyle. We are starting off slowly with simple tasks and things will progress from there. I feel the year is starting off on a good note and I’m excited to see what the new year brings. I have never had personal experience with depression, and watching Lindsey struggle was a real was an eye opener. I had no idea how depression can really strangle your normal life or how stress can send you spiraling into depression.
I would like to thank anyone who gives this a read and I would like to get some feedback or maybe your story if you had something similar happen to you. You can also find me on Twitter @dom_venom .
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