Consent to me is black and white. It is yes and no. Stop and go. You are either allowing the person to do something to you or your not, and you have every right to recall that permission if don’t like the way it feels. It doesn’t matter if it is emotional or physical feelings.
I know if I say pickle, yes that is the safe word and I am sticking to it, Mr will stop. Right then. No question asked. Because the second I say that I have taken away my consent.